Perhaps then, it would be easier for us to make the right decision if we re-framed the contest. Instead of thinking of it as battles to fight and win, we need to see it as peace we need to maintain and enjoy. The Bible mandates that if at all possible, as much as depends on us, we are to live peacefully with all people.
So, instead of always thinking about which battle we need to fight we need to judiciously consider which peace we need to do all in our power to keep. It will take an equal amount of courage but a whole lot more humility and love.